fuuuck. my buddy had his wife take their kids at first and then had him arrested and then divorced him while in jail. After he got out, he was ordered to pay for everything at the house; he didn't know that included the internet. He cancelled it and was arrested for not paying for everything at the house. A year later, and a year of barely being allowed to see his 2 girls, this crazy bitch shows up, drops the kids off and hasn't returned for almost 2 years. I feel for the guys that get shafted. Something definitely needs fixed. Most judges are genuinely retarded and handle cases like an insane person.
I work a lot (software sales/tech). Not at work I'm taking my boy to MMA damn near every day, go shooting, play Skyrim, read and occasionally go for a hike. I love it, and we have so many beautiful places nearby to do it, but I work a lot.